I’ve been sick for the last week. Colds, sore throat – the usual, except it seems to be hanging on to me tightly this time. My body usually gets rids of these viruses within a day or two but this time round, it’s longer, it’s officially one week now and I still feel (and look) worse off.
While swimming in this fuzzy haze, the only good thing I was looking forward to was next week’s planned escapade to Athens. I’ve always wanted to visit Greece. As a kid, I have read most Greek mythologies years before it became required reading in school. In High School I took on the pseudonym Apollo whenever I entered drawing competitions.
I usually travel alone, if lucky with a friend, like my last European trip when Ena joined me. A number of our friends chided us that we did not even invite them – so when Ens and I was planning Greece, we invited everybody. The group came up to 11 people, all members of UPAA-UAE, and we were all very excited. It’s the first time we’ll be taking a group tour together. And with the Eid holidays coming, the timing was just perfect.
Until, in the midst of my hazy, sniffling misery, while in bed at home, I received a barrage of calls all expressing their extreme disappointment. ALL ELEVEN of us got DENIED for Greek visas.
The official reason ticked off in Love’s denial form was “the information submitted regarding justification of the purpose and conditions of the intended stay was not reliable”.
What? Can’t still figure it out. All of us have stable, good-paying jobs. We had our bookings and travel insurances. Six are first timers to Europe (one is a baby) while the rest had travelled to Canada, Switzerland, the UK as well as other European, Middle East and Asian countries.
And we all got denied.
We arranged for a courier service to collect our passports – so we're still in suspense as to what reason will be ticked of in each one's denial letter. But the bottom line is – this sucks! When you're denied a visa (though this is my first denial in Europe and I've been there twice before), you're left with that feeling that you're not “good” enough. That they think you're only applying because you want to look for a job there. Well excuse me, I'm not about to sacrifice the job I love just to go cleaning in the seat of ruined civilizations.
But now that I think about it, I may consider calling on those three lovely, vengeful ladies called Erinnyes, better known as the Furies, for the slight. That would be fun.
So, we have all crossed of Greece in our bucket lists. There are many other countries to see! Will not be recommending Greece to anyone and I highly doubt that the other 10 members of our group will have anything good to say about it any time soon.
Now we’re tying to get refunds for our hotel and flight bookings which we have all paid for. As of Ens' last update, we may be allowed to use it within a choice of four other destinations which includes Jordan. Well, I’ve also always wanted to see Petra (Remember Indiana Jones and the Holy Grail? It's that massive temple that was carved from the mountain - in my mind, there's a similar setting in one of Trudi Canavan's trilogy 'Age of the Five'). Anybody interested?
Oh but not until next year, I’m saving up my energy now for my annual vacation home. That's another ironic thing in this application, they do not believe we'll come back? Most of us already have plans of going back home for vacations, three of us have paid return tickets to the Philippines in December! Ayayay.
Oh loveable Philippines, who spurns not, I’ll see you soon again.
In the meantime, we will probably find ourselves enjoying the lovely coast of Fujairah or Oman over the Eid break instead.
Epictetus said, “What concerns me is not the way things are, but rather the way people think things are.”
How apt.